Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Gotta Cigarette?

I just do not know what to think. The guy in the big hat does not want me yet will not release me either... At the very least I'll be in the Diocese next door as a worshipper - I cannot go back to any church in his. Not right now at least. And that's the least of my worries right now.

34 comments:

Songbird said...

I am so sorry. So, so sorry. Does this mean starting over?

ElastiGirl said...

yep - 18 months

Mary Beth said...

WTF?

I don't know if you can hear how loudly I just typed that.

Cynde said...

MB, I think my house vibrated when you typed that.

I have so many horrible words going through my head right now. It's probably best to go with MB's WTF?

I'm praying for you. Heaven help if I happen to be driving anywhere near where the man in the hat is crossing the street.

God_Guurrlll said...

WTF from the midwest. I'm going to hop in the Texas Town Car of Justice and knock that butthole in the big hat into next week.

ggggrrrr. There is a ministry shortage out there. Bishop Dumbhead needs to let go and let God.


So sorry and I am praying for you.

LYMI

Betsy said...

Oh, shoot...I don't even know what to say. It is so downright mean and punitive. I am sorry, and I will keep praying.

Anonymous said...

Think about it!!!!!! East B knows release will produce the first female ordained in the FW Diocese - Conversation to follow might be "but your Diocesan Guru's decided that she had didn't have the call - my - my" Could the East B accept this conversation? I doubt it. Ditto to the "WTF". Mrs.Brit

Quotidian Grace said...

Absolutely unconscionable.

Cheesehead said...

What. The. Frack? Mean people in big hats SUCK!

God_Guurrlll said...

I'm still seething. I just wanna be alone in the room with that dumbhead so I can knock that big hat off his big butt head.

gggrrrrrrrrr

Social worker said...

What a mean-spirited little man! Ok God, would you let us in on YOUR plan?!

DogBlogger said...

WTF?

I mean, seriously. Come ON.

(Let's try to get together next week, shall we?)

Mrs. M said...

Am so pissed I could spit. Really, really sorry.

Mrs. Swizzle said...

I must say that I find some comfort (and frustration) in knowing that this has nothing to do with hearing the voice of God.

I know that God's Will will be done, but this is NOT it. I can't believe the man in the hat is such an obstacle to God's Will.

Cecilia said...

Even though I was once in that system (a long, long time ago, in a diocese far, far away), I don't know the answer to this: Is there any appeal up the Big-Hatted-Food CHain? Like to the HOB's?

So, so, sorry Elastigirl. I will say to you what I feel like I've been saying to lots of people lately including myself: God does not call us, gift us and equip us for nothing. You WILL have a ministry... and no Big Hat can stop it if God wants it.

(((Elastigirl)))

knittinpreacher said...

I echo the WTF and will throw in gas money for the Texas Towncar of Justice.

Rev Kim said...

ARGH!!! That sucks. We'll chip in gas $ for the TTOJ, too. So, so sorry.

(((((Elastigirl)))))

Songbird said...

18 months. This just makes me mad.

Annie said...

Have followed your journey through social worker, and we even tried to get together when I was working in Lewisville, but never could manage it. Can't believe your news. Can't say what I'm really thinking! My parish in Keller/Southlake would love to have you join us, even if just for a visit! It's right down I-35. You're in my prayers.

Ruby said...

WTF is right. No way!!!

Hot Cup Lutheran said...

why is the church so incredibly flawed at this process??? arggghhhh....

prayers for your sanity.
prayers you trust the call.
prayers you trust god's gifts to you.
prayers... for the meanie guys too... i guess.

mibi52 said...

That stinks. Ditto MB: WTF?

A friend had a similar miserable situation when she was told she wasn't realeased, but that the diocese would "find something for her." Meanwhile, another really cool place was courting her, but she couldn't take the position. After she refused it and it was filled, the bishop THEN said she was released. BTW, she was 5 months pregnant through all of this nonsense. She ended up finding something, but it seemed so damned sadistic. So why do you have to wait 18months? Is that the next round of ordinations or something? What am I missing here?

The colloquial descriptive of the male member seems an apt description...

...DICK.

Jane Ellen+ said...

...does not want me yet will not release me either...

I don't even know what to say (WTF is a repetitive theme), or where to go with this. I'm sorry, and I wish I had a better answer.

(btw, the word verification is "wingal." Even Blogger is on your side!)

zorra said...

This is absolutely unbelievable.
Outrageous. I am so sorry!!!

Anonymous said...

Been to MB's blog so know that some mobilization is happening. Know that you are being held in prayer, held in prayer, held in prayer. God will richly bless you.
Gracie the Lurker

Anonymous said...

Holy. Crap.

Since I am facing this myself (in a megachurch of the nondenominational variety) I understand all too well.

Prayers for you... and for a holy jolt of righteous smiting on some big-hat's head.

GAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH

RevDrKate said...

NO! NO! NO! This CANNOT BE! Oh Honey....I simply have no words. I am so sorry that the a** in the hat feels the need to misuse his power in this way. Prayers and love your way.

mompriest said...

I am speechless....sigh. Praying for you.

revsue said...

O eltasigirl! I am so sorry! Please do not give up..human judgement does not compoare with God's wisdom

Sue said...

Oh crappity crappity crap.

LutheranChik said...

That absolutely sucks in its injustice.

Diane said...

what everybody said. This is AWFUL! UNJUST! HOW CAN this HAPPEN?

Presbyterian Gal said...

Holy Mother of God that is the stinkin'est load of BS that I have ever heard! 18 months? That is just remarkably insane!!

I swear, girl, you need to start your own church. Can I get an AMEN!!

(I would've given a huge WTF like Mary Beth, but So. Calif. can't afford the earthquake)

((((((((Elastigirl))))))))

1-4 Grace said...

Adding in my voice of protest as well.
And giving THE FINGER to the guy with the phalic hat on his head.
LOve, Prayers, and many hugs